Great advice...I'm just not good at all this planning stuff. I work full-time during business hours. Can't make these arrangements from work. Don't have access to internet at work. But it's true, I do only need a photographer and an officiant. I wrote our vows so I don't even have to worry about that. I really don't need decorations. I just want my dream of getting married on the most beautiful beach in America to come true and I don't have a friend who lives there or a brother who can marry me and on top of all that...NOTHING else has gone right that I've planned either. My perfect dress that I ordered got cancelled, no longer available. My engagement ring, which was supposed to be here on my birthday last year was two months late. Sorry...just venting...I'm a little

right now. I was counting on this woman to do all this for me so I didn't have to worry about it.